If you could take a lie detector test right now, would you pass? “It depends what they ask me.” Oh, so you have some history to hide? “I guess, yeah.” Okay…tell me then, what would make you fail the polygraph?
This is a question I LOVE to ask! Especially in small groups. It’s a great conversation starter. I get chuckles in the end…along with a few white lies, but I know my audiences have more dirt. So I change my angle. What’s your favorite lie? I mean, what lie do you love to tell yourself? This gets some interesting responses as well.
Eventually they come around and ask me for my answer. “Easy” I say, I love to tell myself that I’m hungry when I’m really not. I love to tell myself that I am much healthier than I really am. I love to tell myself that I’m going to be a great painter, when reality is (at least for right now…see – there’s another lie) that it takes so much effort to pick up a brush. I have a much better shot a being a great pianist because I LOVE music and sitting down to create it takes ZERO thought, ZERO effort. The fun in asking and answering this questions is that it allows me to be brutally honest with myself, and hopefully will lead to the best course corrections. #seeyouattheconcerthall
THE CHALLENGE: So, what’s your favorite lie? Why do you tell it? How would your life be different if you stopped believing your own lies? What relationship could you strengthen if you were more transparent? What lies do you expose yourself to in the media or other outside sources? Would it benefit you to decrease exposure or remove them entirely? I challenge you to beware of the lies you tell yourself. Beware of the lies others bombard you with, and remove deciet from your lips entirely.