Week 15 of the 2017 NFL season contained a solid lesson. Steelers hosted the Patriots and it came down to the wire. Great games are always decided by a key play or two and this one was no different. With less than a minute remaining in regulation, the Steelers’ tight end (Jesse James) caught what appeared to be a touchdown to secure the win. Instead…they lost.
The NFL rulebook states that if a player goes to the ground in the act of catching a pass he “must maintain control of the ball until afterhis initial contact with the ground.” During the lengthy official review, it was deemed evident that James did not “survive the ground” and the touchdown was overturned. Game over.
The sequence of these events reminded me of our goals and resolutions. I started 2017 with some clear goals that would demand a lot of attention. While some goals were achieved, others were virtually stillborn.
The first obstacle struck early in the year and I dropped the ball. I didn’t anticipate variables like the Grim Reaper, traveling, moving, or new goals to surface along the way. Of course, these are all excuses. Excuses make the ball pop out.
“Good resolutions are a pleasant crop to sow. The seed springs up so readily, and the blossoms open so soon with such a brave show, especially at first. But when the time of flowers has passed, what as to the fruit?”
THE CHALLENGE: A new year is upon us. What do you intend to achieve? Be a season ticket holder to the game of life. This game is measured in years with no offseason and the stakes are much higher than a measly sporting event. Remember, opposition will be knocking at your door. Like it or not, you will make contact with the turf. It is not enough to simply dream a goal, hope a goal, or even write down a goal. You must internalize it. It must excite you, you must dream about it, you must long for it… that is of course if you want to survive the ground.
Illustration by Ashley Goodall