In my world, it’s bad advice to “make a goal and then tell everyone you know so that they will help hold you accountable.” Maybe that’s because I fail a lot. Even when I tell my most trusted friends and family members – I still fail.
“Tell the world what you are going to do, but first…SHOW them!”
I take that back. I don’t fail. (I often say “fail faster” – but not in the sense of ultimate failure.) I change. I learn and grow. I adapt. I aim, pull the trigger and then adjust accordingly. Sometimes I realize that a target is out of reach, or too close. Sometimes it’s the wrong target altogether. Admiditly, there are occasions when I don’t know what the heck to shoot next.
“Be fluid because flexible is too rigid.”
The reason I try to keep my mouth shut and play “show then tell” is because I dislike explaining my decision(s) to people. Can you relate? I found a quote today that I believe is worth reflecting on.
“I had become a new person, and those who knew the old person laughed at me. The only man who behaved sensibly was my tailor: he took my measure anew every time he saw me, whilst all the rest went in with their old measurements and expected them to fit me.” George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950). Man and Superman 1, 1903
THE CHALLENGE: People around you are constantly changing from day to day. We are on a personal journey twisting and turning as a leaf falling from a tree. Every day as you encounter your associates, friends, and most especially your family members – behave like a tailor and take their measurements. See how they feel. See what outlook they have. See if anything has changed from your last encounter. Allow them space to transform or modify their thought process. This will add a rich dimension to your relationships and conversations.